The things we mean to say (but often don’t)

  I love you. You’re important in my life. I’m proud of you. Thank you. I miss you. I’m sorry. Can I help in some way? I appreciate what you did. I attended a funeral a few months ago and as I didn’t know the deceased very well, I was able...

Questions to be asked

I’m fascinated with how people behave, learn, accomplish, fail, succeed – basically how we, as humans, are in the world. Even as a child, I loved noticing things: about people, the world and nature. It didn’t always make sense to me and there...

Psst- did you notice (your) Life yesterday?

It’s easy isn’t it? To get busy. To rush around. To get things done. To go on autopilot. I know – it happens to me sometimes (a lot!). So therefore, I can ask: of the twenty four hours available to you yesterday, how many were you Actually Present...

Self Care for Slow Learners – Never Give Up

I’m a slow learner. It takes a while for me to ‘get’ that I can’t circumvent the laws of nature! Knowing this in theory doesn’t stop me pushing very hard to try! But I don’t think I’m alone in this. I understand (on a...

Feel the Fear Series – My first big road trip

Those of you who know me or who read my musings may remember that in the last year or so, I decided to Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway and join my husband on the back of his motorbike. It was a big deal for me – I was very afraid at the start but I’ve been...